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Some people think that the profile summary on your dating page is no big deal. I think it’s a deal breaker. A friend of mine said that when she looks at a potential’s profile and sees “I’ll tell you later” winky face. Her advice? “Buyer beware.”
There are many reasons why you may be 40+ and looking for love. Maybe it’s your first time, maybe you’re divorced and getting back out there, maybe you’re widowed, or maybe you’ve been in a long-term relationship that ended and is just ready to get back out there. In any case, you may be feeling alone, but you’re not. Just check out the 'Singles over 40' profiles on TriState Black Singles for proof.
Coming off a divisive election, contentious inauguration, and show of solidarity Women’s March (reminiscent and just as awe inspiring as The Million Women’s March back in the 90s) it’s nice to think about something as simple as love in February—the true unselfish kind. Like being kind to others, smiling and saying hello to strangers—it goes a long way. It’s the little acts of kindness that may help to heal wounds. It got me to thinking about why sites like TriState Black Singles are so important.
Just like the princess (or prince in the Disney version) had to kiss many frogs to find their one, it might take our modern-day Single Black Kings and Queens much patience and many clicks through dating profiles to find love in the Tristate area. As someone who has tried online dating, the number of profiles to wade through might seem daunting. Alas, don’t despair, 2017 will be your best dating year ever with TriState Black Singles!
Hello black single, Valentine’s Day is only 12 days away.  Have you thought about lunch and dinner on Valentine’s Day yet? Cooking is a fun date. You can find hundreds of tasty recipes online. Don’t forget to include children in your Valentine’s Day plans. The children can suggest dishes and everyone can prepare food together. […]

Hi Black Single: Let’s tell it like it is. We’ve all had relationships, before we found this black online dating website. And whether they were short, long, bad or good, we are not still in a relationship. So how do we use past experiences to assist us, while we continue to seek love? Let them […]
Hello My Black Single Sisters and Single Brothers, So what do you enjoy doing?  Think about what soothes your spirit and go do it this August weekend!   How I love music!  I like a wide musical variety from classical to jazz to rap.  This weekend I’m in a Jazz mood.  It’s a wonderful thing to have great artists such as John Batiste and Stay Human, Miles Davis, Wynton […]

Hello Black American Single, Do you love you some YOU? Being single in this day and age, it’s easy to get swept up into the dating world, while you look for that special man or woman to share your life with. Of course, I understand how single life can become lonely at times, but sometimes […]
Yes, I am speaking to all of my black, single and searching brothers and sisters in the United States.  Move away from the Internet and get out today! Let everyone see your radiant sunshine as you stroll around a local park, get a bite to eat at your favorite eatery owned by a person of […]