Hello black single, To make April a great dating month, don’t you need to update your profile? The spring signifies “freshness” and “newness” to me, so your old profile will not attract the serious singles who are new to this site. How do you update? It’s easy! Be yourself! Share in your profile how you […]
Dear serious black single: Have you thought about meeting for Sunday brunch as the start for an enjoyable date? Why not be warm and full as you chat with a serious black single? Sunday brunch gives both of you a wide selection of foods. Use the opportunity to explore your differences and similarities! Is your […]
Hello black single: What do you think of when you see the word “apple”? Maybe Johnny Appleseed? How about “smooth”? Well, hundreds of different apples are grown in North America, including unusual names like the Duchess of Oldenburg. It’s apple picking season. Is there an orchard near you? If so, why not go to an […]

Dear Black King, You may meet someone who is traumatized by a past experience with a man, meaning she is judging every man she encounters based on an experience with someone else. As bad as it sounds, the best thing you can do is let her go so she can heal. She needs to cleanse […]

Dear Black Single, Do you believe that dating is what you make it? That what you get out of it is what you put in? Some people don’t like to put in much effort because they are tired of the dating world. It’s understandable. Everyone wants to meet that special person, so when things don’t […]
Dear Black King, Unfortunately, a lot of women perceive men based on the actions of a small percentage: the ones who lie, cheat, and are promiscuous. The truth is, of course, not all men behave this way. There are true black kings, like you, out there ready to treat a black woman the way she […]

It’s incredibly inspiring to see black single men and women out enjoying life, getting busy with their careers, and also spending time with their families. It shows that, yes, while we do want to find our significant others, we still have to live our lives. Being “single” doesn’t mean being “lonely”. It means you haven’t […]

Hey guys, Despite the media’s portrayal of the perfect place to meet women being a bar or a club, I’m here to disagree and tell you why. First, how is there anything romantic about getting a person intoxicated to display interest? I’d much rather buy an individual a book at a bookstore. Second, meeting a […]

Dear black single: Do you ever feel the need to click the “in a relationship” box on Facebook? Or are you the type to just let it slide? With social media, it seems that once you tell the world you’re starting to see someone you have to send out updates on how everything is going, […]

Hello Black Single: Ever heard the quote, “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach?” It’s amazing how what happens in the kitchen seems to determine our relationships. Question, how soon is it for a woman to cook for the man she’s interested in or dating? Now some might say she’s in love […]