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Dear black single: Why not tie loose ends this month, as you prepare to start a new year? Is there a drawer to organize? A few pounds to lose? A book to finish? Get ready to find your special person in 2018! New York, New Jersey and Connecticut are full of interesting black singles looking […]

Hello black single: Make November a month of good changes! Since proteins are the “building blocks of life”, add healthy proteins into your diet. I’ve found that many women are attracted to guys who work out. You don’t need to look like Ronnie Coleman to get her attention, just take care of yourself. For both […]

Hello black singles: Use Google to help you create a workout routine that we will help both your dating opportunities and your body. I highly recommend becoming familiar with the bench press. Learn about nutrition changes to help you to benefit from your workouts. Make October your best month in 2017! Ben

Exercise is key to us as black men. The stats are scarey, but they’re on target. We need to stop smoking and limit gaming. How are we to attract serious black single women, if we aren’t together? Change your mindset and let’s move forward. Ben
Hello black single, To make April a great dating month, don’t you need to update your profile? The spring signifies “freshness” and “newness” to me, so your old profile will not attract the serious singles who are new to this site. How do you update? It’s easy! Be yourself! Share in your profile how you […]
Dear serious black single: Have you thought about meeting for Sunday brunch as the start for an enjoyable date? Why not be warm and full as you chat with a serious black single? Sunday brunch gives both of you a wide selection of foods. Use the opportunity to explore your differences and similarities! Is your […]
Dear black single: Are you preparing for Thanksgiving? Are you hosting? Are you driving? Are you flying? Is your mind crowded with Thanksgiving thoughts? Please don’t forget your date these days! Don’t forget be in contact daily. Do you want that special single you’re dating to feel neglected? It might just happen. When you count […]

Dear Black King, You may meet someone who is traumatized by a past experience with a man, meaning she is judging every man she encounters based on an experience with someone else. As bad as it sounds, the best thing you can do is let her go so she can heal. She needs to cleanse […]

Dear Black Single, Do you believe that dating is what you make it? That what you get out of it is what you put in? Some people don’t like to put in much effort because they are tired of the dating world. It’s understandable. Everyone wants to meet that special person, so when things don’t […]
Dear Black King, Unfortunately, a lot of women perceive men based on the actions of a small percentage: the ones who lie, cheat, and are promiscuous. The truth is, of course, not all men behave this way. There are true black kings, like you, out there ready to treat a black woman the way she […]