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Dear black single: Why not tie loose ends this month, as you prepare to start a new year? Is there a drawer to organize? A few pounds to lose? A book to finish? Get ready to find your special person in 2018! New York, New Jersey and Connecticut are full of interesting black singles looking […]

Hello black single: Make November a month of good changes! Since proteins are the “building blocks of life”, add healthy proteins into your diet. I’ve found that many women are attracted to guys who work out. You don’t need to look like Ronnie Coleman to get her attention, just take care of yourself. For both […]

Hello black singles: Use Google to help you create a workout routine that we will help both your dating opportunities and your body. I highly recommend becoming familiar with the bench press. Learn about nutrition changes to help you to benefit from your workouts. Make October your best month in 2017! Ben

Exercise is key to us as black men. The stats are scarey, but they’re on target. We need to stop smoking and limit gaming. How are we to attract serious black single women, if we aren’t together? Change your mindset and let’s move forward. Ben
Some people think that the profile summary on your dating page is no big deal. I think it’s a deal breaker. A friend of mine said that when she looks at a potential’s profile and sees “I’ll tell you later” winky face. Her advice? “Buyer beware.”
Hello black single, To make April a great dating month, don’t you need to update your profile? The spring signifies “freshness” and “newness” to me, so your old profile will not attract the serious singles who are new to this site. How do you update? It’s easy! Be yourself! Share in your profile how you […]